Monday, May 31, 2010

Quote of the day 2


"Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves"

-Albert Einstein-


Saturday, May 29, 2010

great things not always perfect!

i came i saw i conquer....but last night, i came to u...i saw u...but i'm too weak to conquer u...can't have u and i even let myself go...blinded by love...forced myself being stupid...lol..hahaha...jiwang mode again...=p

Monday, May 24, 2010

Quotes of The Day (stupid)

baby,i like the way u touch me better than i touch myself...
-kwn aku yg dirahsiakan namanya-

lol! bapak porno! haha

Saturday, May 22, 2010

If the World were 100 PEOPLE:

50 would be female
50 would be male

20 would be children
There would be 80 adults,
14 of whom would be 65 and older

There would be:
61 Asians
12 Europeans
13 Africans
14 people from the Western Hemisphere

There would be:
31 Christians
21 Muslims
14 Hindus
6 Buddhists
12 people who practice other religions
16 people who would not be aligned with a religion

17 would speak a Chinese dialect
8 would speak Hindustani
8 would speak English
7 would speak Spanish
4 would speak Arabic
4 would speak Russian
52 would speak other languages

82 would be able to read and write; 18 would not

1 would have a college education
1 would own a computer

75 people would have some supply of food and a place to
shelter them from the wind and the rain, but 25 would not

1 would be dying of starvation
17 would be undernourished
15 would be overweight

83 would have access to safe drinking water
17 people would have no clean, safe water to drink

Queen of my heart

if i cant love u..i lust u...if i cant lust u....i hate myself...=p

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Read this future doctors~

Why we left and why we will continue to leave...
Posted by: MS Mohamad

I read an interesting article today about a few prominent figures addressing their concern over the increasing UKM and UM medical graduates who have left the country to continue their medical practice overseas.

After reading the news for 3 times, I called a very close friend, an MD (UKM) graduate to ask his opinion on how the news might have affected him. He has been working in Singapore for more than a decade as a Consultant Surgeon with a certain sub-specialty

"Why be a slave in your own country, when you are a king in another?" He replied.

Indeed, if anybody would want to find a reason why all of us left, either after housemanship, after being a specialist, or even after sub specializing, and now, even prior to doing housemanship, they need not look at our payslip, or the wealth that we have gained overseas, but only to the Medical System that has been rotting in the ignorance and politic-based stupidity that Malaysia has been well-known for (in the medical field).

I have served the system for nearly 2 decades of my career, waiting for it to improve for so long, and only finding myself in despair, quitting with a 24-hour notice and serving abroad. The system is, in my opinion, keeping doctors, since the beginning of their career as House Officers to the end of it, in the lowermost priority. When I was working there, doctors are so ill-treated, while the nurses and the medical assistants are overpowering us.

I still remember the days when I was doing seeing patients and rounds as an MO, while the staff nurses would mind their own business, having breakfast in the pantry, or having gossip chats at their own leisure. My House Officers would then have to do merely all the labour-work, up to the extent of setting intravenous drips, and serving medications. If I am to expect the nurses, my patients would have been dead, or the work would have been too slowly or incompletely done.

When I was a House Officer, I had to run down 4-5 floors just to review a blood investigation of a dying dengue patient. The ward staff would either be nowhere around, or will say that he is busy (busier than the doctor?) or the answer I got at that time:

"Doktor nak cepat, doktor turun sendirilah, gaji doktor lagi banyak dari saya"

Even when I was a Specialist, the staff nurses had to be called again and again just to make sure the management plan for the patient would be done. I was already used to answers from them:

“I’m busy with something else"

“My shift is already over"

...it was routine for me.

The Medical Assistants were worse. They would hide behind their so-called boss, the Head of Medical Assistant. They feel hiding behind him would make them not under our jurisdiction, that we have no power to instruct them in managing the patient, that they have power to manage own their own. I've seen them giving medications not as we prescribed, performing procedures without our knowledge, as if they are the actual "Doctors". They are in their own world, and we have to do their job, taking blood, labelling samples, and even cleaning gadgets from the procedures that we have done.

Oh, but the ministry loves this group. They even let them run a clinic now, instead of upgrading the clinics already run by doctors. The government feels that the MAs are very important and should never be ill-treated by those big bad doctors. One time when I was a District Hospital Medical Officer, I was conducting a delivery of a baby. An MA insisted that I remove my car which was block-parking his car. I answered through the phone that I was busy.

He came to the labor room and yelled "Semua orang pun sibuk jugak, macamlah doktor seorang yang sibuk!”

It is insulting that an MA or a staff nurse claims that they are BUSY, as busy as a doctor? As a Malaysian Doctor, I have even worked for 72 hours straight. I have experienced working until my 6 month old daughter did not recognize me at the end of the week.

Is that how busy they are? I am very sure that they are so busy, that they can only spend 2 hours at the nearby Mamak stall, or can only leave at 5:10 PM instead of 5, or can only have 1 hour of lunch.

The management staffs are worse. I have to beg and plead so that I can get my on-call claims, of RM25 per 48 hours of work. While sitting in an air-conditioned office, they will at their own leisure, process my call claims so that I will receive them by the next decade.

The state health or Hospital Director would just give another inspirational talk (of bollocks) on team effort and beauty of teamwork.

That is how Malaysian doctors are treated in the government sector: without respect, without dignity and without significance. Why?

It is because we are bound by ethics to try our best to save lives, despite how ill-treated we are. We hardly have time to complaint because we are too busy or tired, and we would rather spend the precious time resting or seeing our loved ones. The burden of trying to save lives is on our shoulders alone. No MAs or Staff nurses would shoulder it with us. They have their own bosses: the Sisters, Matrons, or Head of MAs, which job description is to ensure that the big bad doctors will not ask their underlings to do extra work.

This is how the Malaysian Ministry of Health have treated their doctors. I am very sure that in each and every doctor, there is a slowly-burning patience in serving the Malaysian people, which will eventually fade and cause them to surrender to serving a place that treats them better.

A few colleagues who graduated from UK choose to serve there:

"The pay is more, and we get the respect we deserve"

Another works in Brunei:

“Here the staff nurses respect Malaysian doctors, and they are very co-operative" (He ended up marrying one)

A few are consultants in Singapore (working with me):

"Here we are treated well, we spearhead the management, and every else do their work to the best of their capabilities".

A few even enjoys working in Indonesia:

“The work-load is horrible since there are a lot of patients, but we are well respected by every hospital personnel" (They have migrated there for nearly a decade)

I am sure that people will see doctors as power-hungry individuals who want to be the boss in the hospital. Trust me, after having graduated 6-7 years of medical school, earning a DEGREE, and subsequently MASTERS, and SUBSPECIALITY, you would expect a degree of respect and being considered important. We are trying our best to improve patient's quality of life, or making sure he lives another day. Is it too much to ask from the system that we are important?

I find that Malaysia is the only country that is making doctors' lives miserable and treated like rubbish. It was never about the pay in the first place. It is about the treatment we are getting and the false political-based promises. Do you know that the so-called circular about doctors can have the day off after working 24 hours straight released JULY 2009 is not yet implemented? Do you know that the raise of UD 41 to 44 does not involve every doctor in the government service?

We are waiting for improvement. We have waited a long time when we were working in the system. Somewhere along the line we decided to leave and wait outside the system. Until the system changes, we will continue to work overseas, in countries which are appreciative of us. Trust me, Malaysian-graduate doctors are considered highly skilful and competent in neighbouring countries, and the 15 % brain drain is more significant than you think.

We will return when the system prioritize us and gives us the quality of life we deserve.

If it stays the same, Malaysian Hospitals would end up having Staff nurses and Medical Assistants as "Doctors", and we would have to send patients to Indonesia for an appendicectomy.

Hear our voice. We hardly speak, but will usually fade away from conflict (and fly to another place).

Ke$ha - Your Love is My Drug

video

Maybe I need some rehab, or maybe just need some sleep
I've got a sick obsession, I'm seeing it in my dreams

I'm looking down every alley, I'm making those desperate calls
Im staying up all night hoping, Hit my head against the walls


What you've got boy is hard to find
Think about it all about it all the time
I'm all strung up my heart is fried
I just cant get you off my mind

Because your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love
I said your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love

Won't listen to any advice, mamma's telling me to think twice
But left to my own devices i'm addicted its a crisis!

My friends think I've gone crazy, my judgment is getting kinda hazy
My status is gonna be affected if I keep it up like a love sick crackhead


What you've got boy is hard to find
Think about it all about it all the time
I'm all strung up my heart is fried

I just cant get you off my mind

Because your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love
I said your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love

I don't care what people say
The rush is worth the price I pay
I get so high when you're with me
But crash and crave you when you are away

So I got a question;
Do you want to have a summer party in my basement?
Do I make your heart beat like a native drum?
Is my love, your drug?
(huh) Your drug? (huh) your drug? (huh) your drug?
Is my love, your drug?

Because your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love
I said your love, your love, your love, is my drug
Your love your love your love (x2)

Heyyy heyyy you love, your love, (whispered) is my drug


p/s: finally!! new music video! i love this song!! haha

Friday, May 7, 2010

How to fake a SMILE n convince poeple around u that u are 'HAPPY'

If u have gone through a bad day, smiling is definitely not an option...what if ur job requires you to smile often? this tips will show u how to fake a smile and make it really look convincing.

1. U're getting ready to start ur day at work or school...obviously u r not happy with something or in the smiling mood, but u know that u can't be rude and at least smile so that people around u will not start asking what happen last night..so be cool~

2.Think of a funny movie or anything that may make u laugh or smile just before coming in contact with someone. ..this will appear real and the other person (except professional like me...ahaks =p) will know no difference...if u try just smiling and it's not real, u will be transparent and the individual,even cats can tell if it's fake or not.

3.Telling urself not to smile usually is a good reverse psychology role u can do it anytime u want. u are able to display to the world a quick and 'real' smile this way.

4.If u are a good actor, smile only when u know someone will be in direct contact with u..u do not have to smile when they are not around.So that ur fake smile is not wasted.

5.Take ur time..u need to practice until u can do it on a moment's notice..get a mirror to practice ur smile..without looking at yourself while u practice, u can never improve how to smile...=)

6.Squint both eyes or laugh laugh slightly..this make ur face look more dynamic...if u practice these techniques enough, u will be learn how to fake a smile on demand..

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Transfomasi

aku insan bernama Ahmad Khairul Ridhuwan...pelajar medic kat usm,kelantan,msia...xbyk blh wat kat klntan nih...maklum la..negeri sndiri...xexcited pun time mula2 msuk U...haih~


ni gambar time aku dlm bilik bedah...xde pape yg menarik...jarum sana sini...ubat2..org sakit...doctor2...dan pemerhati cam aku...


ni aku time bosan....bestnya duk kelantan ni anda dapat xperience 1 suasana stadium penuh ngan peminat fanatik pasukan bola sepak kelantan...siyes...kalo korg sume tgk kat stadium lain...nk cukup separuh penuh belum tentu dapat lg...kalo kat sini...ade je match kelantan...stadium penuh...aku pun xpham..hehe



ni hobi aku yg pertama kat usm...maklum la bosan nk mati...siyes! lepas study susah payah...pukul drum kuat2 nk mati...xde orang nk kesah...drum rosak...USM blh beli lg..haha

ni aku tgh gelecek 3 org...thx to Remy yg gn camera dslr Rezza dpt capture moment berharga nih....slalunya aku men bola xde pun org amik gmbr..mula2 aku men bola xde la serius sgt smpai nk wakil2....cam men ptg2 sejak skolah lg...kat skolah pun xpenah wakil bola inikan nk wakil U...tp kat USM...aku jd komited sikit sbb akta merit yg memaksa student involve something yg memberi merit contohnya bola sepak nih...maka...aku wakil bola USM ke Penang sejak 1st year smpai 3rd year n counting...hehe



ni ramai org xcaya aku msuk tarian...bukan ape..perwatakan aku yang comel2 tp macho (sori riak sikit)..yela,msuk bola then tarian....cam x ngam...kan kan? mula2 aku msuk tarian sbb aku jd bidan terjun...diorg mitak sgt2 kat aku gnti org balik umah ttba atas sbb2 yg xleh dielakkan...maka terjebak la aku dlm tarian...smpai skrg..hehe


ni sukan terbaru aku join....mak aku ckp bahaya...tp aku degil...nk jgk msuk...ni pun jd bidan terjun jgk...join last minit..hehe aku first time msuk..trus dpt silver...bangga! penat,sakit tp puas!


ni aku time form 5....sumpah nerd! tp org xcaya...org igt aku playboy skolah la...ish..xphm aku...hahaha...tgk...dgn tie yg xsesuai..suar tinggi...muke selenge...adoi...ptt la xde org minat aku..haha...n aku xkesah...=P


mungkin ini dinamakan evolusi...bkn evolusi Darwin yg bangang tu...tp evolusi diri dari alam kanak2 ke remaja ke dewasa...aku insan biasa...mampu berubah...kalo dulu ade org kutuk aku selekeh...esok lusa kita tgk sape selekeh...haha chow~ nnt aku update lg...